Those of us who are married can tell you that it isn’t easy, but if you have a loving spouse it’s worth it. Saying “I do” comes with a lot of changes, and those around you may have a hard time adjusting to your new role—especially friends you are very close with. This can cause problems between you and your spouse, so setting boundaries is a must. Becoming a spouse is difficult enough. Here are a few tips to help you make your transition from full-time bestie to full-time wifey (or hubby) a little smoother.Read More
In my opinion, one of the most tragic things you can do as a believer is to not consult God before making a decision. As a child, one of the scriptures our drill team recited was Proverbs 3:5-6.
“Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.
In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.” (NKJV)
I can hear the obligated “Ma’am!” we had to belt out after we finished. If only I knew then what I know now! (*Insert your own praise break*) I can’t count how many hardships I could have avoided.
I will be honest. Even though I consider myself to be somewhat of a mature Christian, this is something I still struggle with. It seems to be a mountain that hubby and I are continuing to go around. As of late we’re repeatedly telling each other, “You are going to learn to listen to God one day.” We know that His grace is keeping us. But how much better could things be if we humbled ourselves and accepted that we aren’t wise enough to make decisions on our own? After all, the bible does say there’s a way that seems right to a man, but in the end there’s death. (Proverbs 14:12)
This is true for every decision that a believer makes, especially when it comes to marriage.Read More